Tuesday, October 8, 2013

First (Temporary) Placement



    It’s been too long (again) since I posted an update here.  For the last few weeks we have just been plain busy.  Patti has been preparing for, and then actually being a part of, a weekend of Kairos prison ministry at the Northeast Pre-Release Center, a women’s prison in Cleveland and, as always, there is a lot going on at church.  During this time, we also continued to work on our Aunt’s house and have moved some of her furniture to our house.  Moving furniture, particularly beds and dressers is the biggest part of what we had left on our “to do” list before we felt ready to accept a placement.
    
    A few weeks ago, we discovered that we were ready before we knew we were ready.  Knowing that we were very close, one of the folks from Guidestone called us and asked if we would consider taking in two boys from a neighboring county.  We agreed to talk about it, but at our next training meeting a few days later we discovered that as soon as we had said we were willing to talk, they had submitted our file to the county for consideration.  Nothing ever really came of it, but we realized that we were ready.  

    Then last week it happened.  A Guidestone foster parent had some trouble with a high school aged girl that had been living with her.  We knew them both and they knew us so, at least in the short term, Guidestone asked if she could come to our home for a few days of respite care while they searched for a new, more permanent, placement.  We said yes.  The girl was supposed to stay with us for just two or three days but we are already approaching a week.  Everything has gone fairly well so far.  The worst part for us has been that her schedule is dramatically different than ours of our children’s so it has been something of a challenge for one of us to be around when she is home.  Today she is meeting with her county social worker so things may change but we don’t yet know what will happen or when.

    I suppose this means we should also finish up that last bit of paperwork too…